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Source: Uncle Buer (ID: dashu 259)
For the rest of your life, don’t care too much about others, but care more about yourself.
Stay single
The writer Meiya once said: Singleness refers to the ability to remain single even if you get married and have a lifelong partner.
To put it simply, women should have their own social circle, stable income and independent spiritual world at any time. Even if they have to leave each other one day, they can live a good life.
Yes, a woman’s single power is the highest charm in marriage.
You can put it away freely, you can stick to it if you want, and you can be independent if you want to be independent. With the power of being single, you can live freely for the rest of your life.
Don’t care too much about other people’s comments.
There’s a saying, it’s hard to talk for a long time. You don’t need to explain what you know, and it’s useless to explain what you don’t know.
Yes, sometimes, we are often sad because we care too much about what others say about you and pay too much attention to what we shouldn’t.pay close attentionOn the negative things.
The philosophy emperor Mark Aurelius once wrote:
Focus on building your own spiritual world, cancelpay close attentionRain or shine in other people’s moods will bring them closer to happiness.
People’s true self-confidence begins with never caring about other people’s comments.
So, for the rest of your life, don’t care too much about others, but care more about yourself.
Stick to a hobby
There is a saying in The Art of Screenplay:
"Everyone needs a way to release their natural creativity. You don’t know where your hobby will eventually lead you. "
The implication is that hobbies make your life infinite.
Insisting on writing, reading, practicing calligraphy, or studying a plant may make you an expert in this field, strive to improve yourself and cultivate your hobbies.
But I don’t insist on hobbies for quick success and instant benefit. I just say that with a hobby, at least, I can get some timely and happy enjoyment in a desert and boring society.
Life is full only if you have hobbies.
Love yourself first, then love others
Girls always pay the most in love, but in the end, they hurt the most.
There is nothing wrong with being kind to a person, but you must know that you should learn to put away some of your heart and give it to yourself, take out your own bottom line and principles appropriately, and don’t be too tolerant or too wronged, so that you can be regarded more seriously.
You must know that only after you love yourself first and make yourself better can you meet better people.
Do not please, do not rely on
When I was young, I was often told that if you are good to others, others will be good to you. Later, I gradually developed a flattering personality, but in the end, I found that the truth of life is far more cruel than I thought.
Your flattery is getting worse, your dependence is getting worse, and you are not taken seriously.
In fact, a woman’s best living condition is that she can be an independent and powerful woman all the time without mistreating every enthusiasm and ingratiating herself with any indifference.
Skin care becomes beautiful
I have to admit that age is still cruel to women.
But smart women should understand that with the improvement of contemporary young people’s aesthetics, any elegant and comfortable woman has the characteristics of cleanliness, neatness and vitality.
No one likes being sloppy, and no one likes to go to work with a big oil head. I still hope you love yourself more.
Adhere to basic skin care, exercise and fitness, buy comfortable clothes, and make yourself beautiful, so that your mood will be beautiful.
But don’t confuse the purpose of women’s beauty. It is not to please others, but to please themselves.
Know how to stop loss in time
Whether it is love, life or work, if you choose the wrong direction, you should turn around in time and stop the loss in time.
Don’t give yourself a hard time, people will always encounter all kinds of setbacks in this life, and it is very important to learn to stop losses in time.
Although there will be regrets, the stop loss is short-lived. There is a saying that long pain is better than short pain, which is the truth.
Sometimes, stop loss in time is to give yourself a chance to survive, and sometimes, it is to turn to a broader life.
Smart women all know that to live like water, you should turn to the flow if you can’t walk ahead, and don’t live like a stone, which breaks into stone slag when you hit the ground.
Exercise for half an hour every day
There is a saying that good health is the first way to have a good life; There is an old saying that health is the capital of revolution.
Nowadays, young people often work overtime for work, and their health has already shown sub-health. Some people go home and look at their mobile phones and brush the news. However, the temporary refreshment can’t bring you substantial benefits.
If you are lazy for comfort now, you will put more pressure on your body in the future. Why don’t you take advantage of this time to keep exercising for half an hour, and after a week, you will find that you have greatly improved both physically and mentally, and the whole person looks refreshed.
After all, life with exercise and without exercise is really different.
Don’t waste your time on rubbish.
In this life, people will always meet all kinds of people. If there are good people, there will be garbage people.
In this life, people will always encounter all kinds of things, including good things and garbage.
But time is fixed and fair, and it is even more precious. When you encounter garbage people or garbage things, don’t entangle. If you entangle, you will waste your life and get unlucky.
You should know that some people and things are doomed to be unsatisfactory. Instead of pestering waste, it is better to end it as soon as possible to achieve another wonderful life.
Look forward to the future
What people fear most is to lose hope, and what people are happiest is to look forward to the future.
Only when there is hope for the future, are you willing to expand a more exciting life.
Having no desire and no desire, and going with the flow, you made a compromise to life early, and it seems that you no longer have expectations. It took a long time to understand that the lack of expectations and the lack of efforts at the beginning are the chief culprits that lead to mediocrity now.
People still have to look forward to life. As long as we don’t forget to give ourselves a hope every day, we will certainly have a rich life.
Come on!
Author:Uncle Buer, a single and beautiful uncle who combines reason and emotion, is funny and warm-hearted, and focuses on weaving girls’ dreams at night.WeChat Official Account: Uncle Buer, ID: dashu259. uncleWeChat: dashu8615, welcome to Liao.
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