Original Ye Er Republic of China woman
First, she "loves" the prince, and the prince loves another person.
In the inspirational version, Diana is portrayed as Cinderella in a pumpkin cart. In fact, her family background is very good. Her father is Count Spencer, and her family has always been closely related to the royal family.
The first date with Charles was not Diana, but Diana’s sister Sarah. Sarah is smart, confident and radiant. She is closer to Charles in age and mind.
Because of this, she has no respect and admiration for Charles, but associates with Charles with the mentality of lovers. From the lover’s point of view, Charles is not a good candidate. He is sensitive and insecure, and he is eager for others to give him emotional input, but he will not give others emotional output.
Charles likes Camilla, who is complementary to his personality, because Camilla is warm, confident, humorous and can export her feelings to him. However, Camilla was not a virgin, and the royal family did not agree to their marriage. Camilla married someone else, and Charles was inseparable and had to choose another spouse.
Diana in Salabi is intelligent, mature and strong in heart. If she marries Charles, it is possible to pull Charles’ heart away from Camilla. But Charles and Sarah didn’t look at each other right, and because of some misunderstanding, they didn’t talk about it.
Charles took an interest in Diana.
Diana was pure and shy, and Charles was attracted by her. For Diana, the countess, she doesn’t go to school now, and she doesn’t have to worry about the source of life. She teaches children to dance for a week without a few classes, and the spiritual emptiness is just filled by love.
Although Charles is stuffy and boring, he is a prince. Whoever marries him will be the Princess of Wales and the future queen. Diana couldn’t resist the temptation.
Diana thought she was in love with Charles, but in fact she loved the identity of a prince, an imaginary love fairy tale. Charles doesn’t love Diana, but a innocence he lost, an innocent body suitable for being a princess.
Two people, each with his own needs, were married.
As expected, after their marriage, they had conflicts and quarrels, and Charles turned to Camilla to appease the "injured" heart. Diana also went to find a lover, but the lover she found in a hurry was of worrying quality, which could not soothe the pain in her heart. She summoned up the courage to tell the TV station that "there are three people in her marriage, which is too crowded", causing public outcry.
Her marriage to Charles came to an end.
Second, the marriage failed, and Diana kept trying and making mistakes on the road of love.
Both Charles and Diana were born in nobility, and nobles are human beings, and they are also eager for love and happy marriage. However, unlike ordinary people, nobles have a lot of property and slaves, and they have a wider detour space. If they are properly used, they can avoid many contradictions.
The old countess in Downton Abbey said a sentence to the effect that "a noble marriage can’t be unhappy". She didn’t explain the meaning of this sentence. I think so-ordinary couples, living under one roof, daily necessities, old people and children, bumping into each other, contradictions are inevitable.
Nobles have manors, servants, children are transported by servants, and old people are taken care of by servants. Two people are tired of watching it. You live in yours, I live in mine, you play with yours and I play with mine. It’s just that in the scene, two people come out to socialize together.
Therefore, in the traditional western upper class, the phenomenon of lovers is widespread. Husband and wife are tired of seeing each other, so they can get emotional supplement, avoid the imbalance of interests caused by divorce, and turn a blind eye to illegitimate children.
After the rekindling of the old love between Charles and Camilla, Diana began to look for a lover in order to get back at Charles and relieve her loneliness.
The rabbit eats grass by the nest first, and Diana’s first lover is her bodyguard. Their love affair caused gossip in the palace, and the bodyguard was fired. Later, the bodyguard was killed in a motorcycle accident.
Around the birth of Prince Harry, Diana fell in love with equestrian coach Hewitt. Hewitt is a playboy, and a playboy knows how to please women. Diana wrote many love letters to Hewitt, expressing her willingness to have children for Hewitt.
But Diana’s true feelings were paid by mistake.
Hewitt is a scum, profligate, and when he is short of money, he wants to exchange his relationship with Diana for money. He published a book "The Princess in Love", made his love affair with Diana public, and wanted to auction the love letter written by Diana to him. In order to get a good price, he revealed to the buyer that the content of the love letter written by Diana was "very exciting". Unexpectedly, the buyer is a reporter posing. When the news got out, he had to give up the idea of auctioning love letters.
Hewitt is also going to be on TV to tell his story with Diana.
Hewitt’s action put Diana in a passive position, and because of the provocation of BBC reporters, Diana decided to strike first and tell the TV audience about her failed marriage. This interview led to the disintegration of Diana’s marriage with Charles.
In the late 1980s, Diana fell in love with a car salesman. The car salesman is not handsome, but he has high emotional intelligence, sweet words and is good at deceiving people. He and Diana often make out on the phone. Their phone conversation was recorded by paparazzi, and it broke out. Diana broke up with the salesman.
In the early 1990s, Diana fell in love with an Islamic art dealer. The dealer’s wife found out about their relationship and put pressure on her husband. After careful consideration, the dealer decided to break off the relationship with Diana.
Diana was heartbroken. It is said that she called the dealer more than 300 times on the night of breaking up. The dealer was determined to return to her family and did not answer her phone.
Diana also fell in love with a billionaire who is 20 years older than her and a young rugby player. Her intimacy with football players made the players’ wives very unhappy.
After Diana died in a car accident, a royal housekeeper revealed that he had an affair with Diana. Diana often invited him over at midnight and they had sex. It was also revealed that Diana had an affair with Kennedy Jr. Neither of these things is true or false.
In 1995, Diana visited a friend who had a heart operation and met Hasnat Khan, a Pakistani-born heart surgeon. In Diana’s eyes, Hasnat Khan is a "Mr. Perfect". After Diana divorced Charles, she wanted to marry the doctor, but the doctor’s parents did not agree to their son’s marriage because of their different living habits and growing environment. The doctor didn’t want to be chased by people every day, so he refused Diana.
Diana was sad and disappointed, and turned to meet Dodi, the son of Egyptian rich Fayyad. Many people describe Dodi as an infatuated person who has been infatuated with Diana for many years. In fact, Dodi is a playboy. Before he fell in love with Diana, he had a girlfriend. His relationship with Diana was probably arranged by his father, Fayyad Sr.
Diana’s tryst with Dodi was originally intended to stimulate Hasnat Khan to see if he was jealous of his new relationship. Because Dodi and Diana died together, people deliberately beautified their love, which made many people have the illusion that Diana found true love at the end of her life.
3. Diana has never loved or been loved by the right person in her life.
Diana was a loveless child since she was a child. She felt inferior inside and longed for love. Inferiority makes her "love" Charles, and Charles can give her a dazzling aura of a princess. After the lack of love made her disappointed with Charles, she sought emotional sustenance again and again.
Diana was only sixteen years old when she was in contact with Charles, and she had almost no life experience. She had a hard time studying, and the only book she liked to read was Barbara Cartland’s romance novels. These Qiong Yao-style romance novels not only didn’t help her solve the marriage dilemma, but made her have unrealistic fantasies about love.
She has never fallen in love with a person because of the same three views. She only fell in love with a "feeling". She "loves" anyone who makes her feel novel and interesting.
Diana falls in love with people who are different from her.
Have a plenty of class gap, such as car salesmen and others, she is a noble, they are civilians.
There are some age gaps, such as the billionaire who is 20 years older than her.
Some are different from her religious beliefs, such as Pakistani doctors and Dodi, the son of Egyptian rich men.
It’s not that people who have a gap can’t fall in love and get married. The legendary love in the world-the prince and Cinderella, and the eighteen years of Wang Baochuan Cold Kiln, all have a gap.
But the gap means more difficulties and challenges, and people in love need more tolerance, courage, wisdom and means …
Diana lacks all these things.
On the surface, Diana wants to marry a Pakistani doctor because the doctor is a "Mr. Perfect" and dates Dodi, the son of a wealthy Egyptian, because Dodi is after her. In fact, she is probably in love with their exotic customs. After marriage, the mystery fades. How to face the differences between living habits and religious customs? Diana probably didn’t think about it.
Her eldest son, William, will inherit the throne in the future. According to tradition, the king of England is also the head of the Anglican Church. What inconvenience will William and his stepfather bring in their communication in the future? How can she help her son and husband to restrain this inconvenience? She probably didn’t think about it.
It is not surprising that a person has once or twice unreliable love in his life. Everyone grows up through trial and error, which is the price paid on the way to trial and error.
But the love in a person’s life is always unreliable, which is his or her cognitive problem.
Diana followed her feelings all her life, which led to the inhumanity she met in her life. In time, her heart will settle down, maybe her love concept will mature, but she died too early to wait for that day.
Author: Ye Er: I love fireworks and gossip.
Original title: "Talking about the" unreliable "love of the British royal family ∣ Diana"
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